Forgive...Forget...????

How do you forgive? That question has been sticking with me for some time. I know that to forgive is to give up resentment and/or grant relief but how do you move on after you've forgiven someone even though you can't forget what they've done? To forget something is to act as if it never happened; to lose rememberance or to be unable to recall something that happened. That is so confusing to me. In life, when things happen, you can't just act as if it never did or if you do act as if you don't rememeber, at sometime, you will recall what it was that was done to you to cause you to hurt.

So, I'm dealing with this right now...I honestly want to move on from the hurt that I've experienced but I can't seem to forget what happened. I know that I've forgiven but its still hard for me to forget...actaully, its very difficult for me to put the various things away as if it never happened. So I've prayed about it, I've talked to people who have experienced some of the things I have and they don't have an answer for me either.

Is this even possible?